Ghanaian actor turned pastor Majid Michel has become a relationship experts as he counsels people on the need to avoid being a love addict.
The actor who has become irritably tired of the rate at which couples break up their marriages gives some advice that will help their marriage stand the test of time.
He stressed the need for “you” to build yourself first before venturing into marriage. You should not seek for happiness in your partner and you should not be one who is suffering from addictive dependency.
Majid said that words like “ "i will die without you.” “i cannot live without you.” “if you go away, my world will crumble.” Are not romantic words .They are rather words that indicate that the person has addictive dependency on his /her partner which is not a good sign in marriage.
He further stated that for you to be happy and complete in marriage, you need God and His holiness God is saying, "please get your act together as an unmarried person. Get your standards and values settled". if you cannot control your emotions, your passions, your feelings, your attitudes, your bad habits or your behavior as you are single now, then you are not prepared for marriage. if you need to get married to be fulfilled or loved, you are not ready for marriage.
Majid advised men that they should ensure they discover themselves before looking for whom to marry.